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Why Is It So Hard To Forgive Someone?

Pastor Greg Surratt gives four reasons why is it so hard to forgive someone and gives us a forgiveness how to of practical steps we can follow when we need to learn how to forgive. This message is a must-watch for anyone seeking to understand how to forgive someone, the misconceptions around what it means to forgive, and the profound impact forgiveness has on emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. Find guidance and encouragement to take the courageous step towards true freedom through forgiveness. 00:00 - The most important skill you can develop in your life is forgiveness. Whether in marriage, friendships, or professional relationships, forgiveness is crucial for your mental health and well-being. 05:31 - Why is it so hard to forgive someone? Because the pain inflicted is often deeply personal. Whether it's a minor slight or a life-altering betrayal, the emotional wounds can be profound. 08:51 - It's hard to forgive because we have an innate desire for justice. We often feel like forgiving someone who hasn't repented means they are getting away with it. 13:41 - Because we don't understand what forgiveness means. Forgiveness is not forgetting the wrong done, nor is it immediate trust or reconciliation. It's a conscious choice to release the hold that past wrongs have on us. 13:52 - Forgiveness is not forgetting. Forgiveness does not mean erasing the memory of the offense. Instead, it involves shifting our focus from the past to the future. Philippians 3:13-14 emphasizes looking forward to what lies ahead rather than being anchored by past wrongs. 16:22 - Forgiveness is not immediate trust. Forgiving someone doesn't mean you immediately trust them again. Trust is built over time and requires consistent, trustworthy behavior. Proverbs 22:3 advises us to take precautions and set boundaries when necessary. 17:10 - Forgiveness is not reconciliation and restoration. While reconciliation is the ideal outcome, it is not always possible or safe. Jesus taught us to be "as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves" (Matthew 10:16), meaning we should be wise and discerning in our relationships. 18:20 - Forgiveness is a choice. Forgiveness is a deliberate decision to let go of past wrongs and not use them in future arguments. Colossians 3:13 urges us to "forgive as the Lord forgave you," emphasizing that forgiveness is a choice we make, often repeatedly. 22:17 - Because we underestimate the consequences of unforgiveness. Unforgiveness can lead to bitterness, which has severe emotional, physical, relational, and spiritual consequences. Holding onto grudges can lead to increased stress, health issues, and broken relationships. 32:37 - Forgiveness is not just a lofty ideal but a practical necessity for a healthy, fulfilling life. This week, take a personal inventory and identify areas where you may be harboring unforgiveness. Ask God for the strength and grace to forgive, and make a courageous choice to let go of past hurts.