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What To Do When My Husband Is Addicted To Video Games | Paul Friedman

Does your husband is addicted to video games? This is very common nowadays. Did you know that males are more at risk of video game addiction? Watch Paul explain this situation and see if his tips could help with this problem. I've seen this, I've seen it with my kids. I have seen it with some friends where they could be on this video game for hours and days. I'm going to try and help you with this one. This is not easy, I want you to know right off the bat. This addiction to video games is like fidgeting. It's sort of a more sophisticated form of fidgeting and so it's not your problem per se. I mean it becomes your problem because your husband is so wrapped up in his videogames. There are people who write in to us we're men quit their jobs. They just don't worry about life anymore. They don't hang out with their children they're just sucked in. What do you do? I'm going to give you some tips. One, feed your husband. Don't let him get addicted to the chips, to the junk food. Prepared really good meals for him. Let him start tasting food, real food. Not a quick sandwich but a real nice meal. Afterward, have a glass of soda with him maybe a glass of wine, talk to him. Get involved with him. Ask him how he's doing. Take him for a walk if you can get him to go with you for a walk and a lot of this is timing. You got to get the timing right. Obviously, when you fix a good meal for him and you want to go for a walk you don't want to fix the meal at 7:00 at night, fix it earlier in the day so you could walk out while they're still fresh air, it's good weather. "Honey, let's go for a walk. I just saw something down the street. I want your opinion on it. And then talk about how fresh the air is, how nice it is. Try to get him to see that he could live without the addiction, without the video games. Hold his hand, become more of a reality for him than the games then do things that surprise him. Make a little snack, cookies, and say, "You can have these cookies but you got to talk to me." Give him a little bite. Plan things. Take him out with you. Make sure he gets some fresh air. Don't nag him. Don't criticize him, don't condemn him. None of those things will work. Literally, you need to be extra nice. You need to make being with you more fun for him than the video games. Read a good book yourself and then share it with him. "Honey, could you just pause this for a minute?" And then tell him what you came across, try to get his interest in other things. I promise you that having a positive approach to this will go a lot further than a negative approach. Do not say, "You're hooked on video games. What's wrong with you?" Don't do that. He'll go deeper into the video game thing and you may suggest if there's an opening, "Honey, why don't we set aside a time when you're doing the video games and no one will disturb you?" You could try that approach too. It's a very difficult situation, it is, and you might say that the number one thing is to make yourself more interesting than video games. I'm not going to tell you this is easy. I'm going to tell you that you're going to have to do a lot of trial and error and see what happens. #gameaddiction #marriageproblems #frustratedwoman #unhappywife #marriageissues #marriagetips