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Stop Trying To Fit In And Be Liked By Everyone !!!

👁 Stop trying to fit in and be liked by everyone. Fitting in is the opposite of belonging. The more you are trying to fit in, the more lonely and unhappy you will end up. The more you are trying to be liked by everyone the less you will end up liking yourself too. Let me explain. We all need to belong. We are hardwired to note only feel safe and only survive with, but only live and thrive with our fellow human beings. Some of us may be introvert or neurodivergent and not really enjoy the company of people, or even like them… but we all do need SOME people in our life, every single one of us. When we are disconnected to people we suffer depression. Depression is a signal telling us that we are disconnected from one or more of the fundamental aspects of our human experience. For many of us, if we are disconnected this also means that we are unsafe, and that develops into anxiety. For many of us, anxiety can also spawn a coping mechanism in the shape of an addiction. If we are constantly feeling anxious but we know that there is one thing we can do that can distract us from that unsettling and uncomfortable feeling, it is easy to see how people fall into addictions of all sorts all the time. Not belonging is one of the greatest source of mental and emotional illness. But the saddest thing is that we have been taught to believe that in order to belong we must fit in, and this a lie. In fact, the more we are trying to fit in, the more unhappy, lonely, empty and disconnected we feel, because in order to fit in we must sacrifice our dreams. We must sacrifice who we are, how we feel, who we want to become… We must never allow ourselves to become the person we were always meant to be and live the life that we were always meant to live… we must shut up, calm down, look like everyone else and play safe… just like our parents, teachers and community, and their parents, teachers and community before them… We are all born unique and there is not, there has never been and there will never be anyone exactly like us. Why ? Because if there was there would be no point in us even existing. We all complete a big picture that our human mind was never designed to comprehend, and our most important quality, attribute and super power is our uniqueness. And so stop trying to fit in. There is no need for any of that anymore. We are coming out from a fear ridden medieval small village mentality into a global new world of connection and exponential evolution, with technologies allowing us to connect with everyone, everywhere, 24/7… Embrace who you are. Express yourself. Be offended. Speak out your truth. Stand for what you believe is right. Let everything that makes you quirky and special shine so much that whatever your haters hate becomes the reason the rest of the world loves you. Surround yourself with people who see you, hear you, accept you, and support you unconditionally, and ditch the rest… It is a big world out there and there are more than plenty of people on this planet, and more and more each day, who are awakening to that wonderful and powerful awareness… #didikan #clinicalhypnotherapist #rtt #growthmindsetcoach #mindfulnesscoach #depression #anxiety #addiction #selfsabotage #burnout #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #bipolardisorder #adhd #cptsd #mentalhealthawareness Website: @didikantransformation.com https://didikantransformation.com/ YouTube: @didikan1147 Facebook:   / didikantransformation   Tiktok: @didikantransformation Instagram: @didikantransformation Threads: @didikantransformation LinkedIn: Didi Kan